Secret to Keeping Your Man Happy

Categories: Marriage Tips

By Denny Freeman on August 28, 2017

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Dear Brides:

As I have said before, your guy wants to make you happy, but often isn’t sure how to do so. If there was a “happy button” to push to make you happy everyday, he would make that a number one priority.

Research has found men want less conflict. They don’t want to be the source of a womans unhappiness, and when she’s unhappy, they want to fix whatevers broken and move on. Sometimes men feel responsible for women’s feelings.

Most men aren in touch with their emotions as women are; actually they can find them a bit scary. Your moods are often one of the most challenging things in his world to figure out. While women tend to examine their emotions, men tend to act on them. Your anger can really flip him out.

It’s not what you say, it’s more the way you say it. In his mind, for you to have better success with your words, remember as I have said before: less are better than more.

Use fewer words, but make them count.
Remain calm, because youll get better results, and keep his attention better than using a loud, angry voice.

When you
e disappointed with him, realize he may feel defeated, and feel responsible for your unhappiness.

This may all sound confusing, but Im helping you to understand the guy you
e marrying. I’m giving you a glimpse through his glasses. So, understanding where hes coming from should help you in communication and motivation. These observations are understood through years of surveys and interactions from people who counsel men and women.

Remember, your affirmation works wonders on his heart, and that affirmation is love.

Men value affirmation, especially from you, as love.

They value being appreciated, honored, and respected. A wise bride will affirm everything that pleases her and makes her happy. In other words, try to catch him doing good things for you and let him know that it pleases you.

When Sandy, my wife of fifty-four years, says she’s proud of my efforts, then that’s the best! Shes saying, I love you, loud and clear.

Until next time,

FarmerD