Tips for a Man to Stay Connected with His Woman

Categories: Marriage Tips

By Denny Freeman on July 30, 2018

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Dear Brides:

Heres another letter that shares ideas to help your guy stay connected with you.

I trust you
e realizing men and women are as different as night and day. If I were writing to men, I may say to them, “You really have no idea what you
e getting into when you marry that special woman you love.”

She is a very sensitive creature that enables her to stay up all night with the kids when they are sick. Her sensitivity is what drives her to wait on you hand and foot when you’re down with the flu. You may think she’s over sensitive at times, but better to realize you must take her weaknesses with her strengths.

As a guy, he can close himself off and refuse to be open, or he can move toward her and connect with her at new levels of openness. One of the simplest yet most effective steps you can take is simply to share your day with her.

Sandy and I are retired now and the best part of our day is having a cup of coffee together after we get up in the morning. Its usually small talk, but it’s a great way to stay connected with each other.

Busy schedules are tough on good communication because no one is at fault. But people can easily drift apart and they wonder how it all happened.

Couples have to work on making time for one another and keeping the lines of communication open.

Here are a few tips to help for men to stay open with his lady.

Share your feelings, talking about your daily successes and your difficulties.
Say to her, “Let’s talk,” then ask her, “What are you thinking?”
When you have issues to solve, ask for her opinion.
Good eye contact shows if you want to talk and that you
e involved in the conversation.
Ask how her day went, then express interest in any of her frustrations and problems.
Give her your full attention with no interference from the TV, phone, or other interruptions.
Discuss financial concerns and ideas for the future if they should come up.
Share your frustrations and problems so she knows what you
e going through.
Pray with her.

Until next time,

Farmer D